Author: harris16464@bellsouth.net

Tributes pour in from fellow artists and fans

By Preshias Harris

Joe Diffie, who passed away March 29, 2020, will be deeply missed by fans and members of Nashville’s music industry. My personal memories of Joe are below, but first just a few of the many tributes from the music community.

“Joe was much more than a great country singer. He was a great song guy as well. He also knew how to put on a show. I will miss you, my friend.” – Teddy Gentry on behalf of ALABAMA.

 “Joe was a character. A great singer of songs and always had a story or joke to make you smile. I’ll miss crossing paths with him every year on the road, and my heart goes out to his family.” – John Anderson.

“Joe Diffie was the ‘pickup man’ — always had a smile and a story, to cure and encourage. It was my fortunate blessing to come along the same time JD did, in music —so many great memories, and so many times he ‘propped me up.’” – Randy Travis.

“He was a warm-hearted, good-natured, fun-loving man with an extraordinary voice. I will miss him.” – Lee Roy Parnell.

“Rest in peace, Joe Diffie. Country music‘s huge loss of my friend, a great singer and songwriter. May God Bless his family and friends.” – Jerry Lee Lewis.

Personal memories of Joe

I have many personal memories of Joe. We met in the 90s when Joe cut “Coolest Fool in Town,” a track on his first album (A Thousand Winding Roads) that was written by my future boss Randy Boudreaux (“Alibis” “Brokenheartsville”). All of us would hang out at Barbara’s bar and restaurant with Joe, Tim McGraw, Tracy Lawrence and others. Nobody “ghermed” them there; they were just regular joes, no pun intended.  

When I was working with award-winning songwriter Mary Francis in the late 90s I was listening to some of the demos of songs she had written. One of those demos was for a song titled “Tonight the Heartache’s on Me” with a male vocalist singing the demo. I told Mary that the vocalist sounded like Joe Diffie and she replied, “It is Joe, singing the male two-step version that I have been pitching for several years.”  I went ahead and sent the demo with Joe’s vocal to Paul Worley who, with Blake Chancey, was producing Wide Open Spaces, the major-label debut album for the Dixie Chicks. The Chicks cut “Heartaches” that was included on the Platinum-selling album and was also a hit single – thanks in part to Joe’s great vocals on the demo.

Joe’s first release was “Home,” followed by “If the Devil Danced (In Empty Pockets),” and many more including “Third Rock From the Sun,” “Bigger Than the Beatles” and “Pickup Man” that became a perennial fan favorite.

He charted 18 Top Ten singles, with the majority reaching the Top Five, including the 1993 radio staples “Prop Me Up Beside the Jukebox (If I Die)” and “John Deere Green.” More about Joe here.

Lyrics from “Prop Me Up By the Jukebox”: “Just let my headstone be a neon sign/ Just let it burn in memory of all of my good times,” Joe sang.  “… I’ll be the life of the party, even when I’m dead and gone.”

Preshias Harris  is a music journalist and music career development consultant with the emphasis on new and aspiring artists and songwriters. Her book, ‘The College of Songology 101: The Singer/Songwriter’s Need to Know Reference Handbook’ is available at   www.collegeofsongology.com   Follow her blog at  www.nashvillemusicline.com